Several years ago, I was
given as a gift a remote session with a bibliotherapist at the London
headquarters of the School of Life, which offers innovative courses to help
people deal with the daily emotional challenges of existence. I have to admit
that at first I didn’t really like the idea of being given a reading
“prescription.” I’ve generally preferred to mimic Virginia Woolf’s passionate
commitment to serendipity in my personal reading discoveries, delighting not
only in the books themselves but in the randomly meaningful nature of how I
came upon them (on the bus after a breakup, in a backpackers’ hostel in
Damascus, or in the dark library stacks at graduate school, while browsing
instead of studying). I’ve long been wary of the peculiar evangelism of certain
readers: You must read this, they say, thrusting a book into your hands with a
beatific gleam in their eyes, with no allowance for the fact that books mean
different things to people—or different things to the same person—at various
points in our lives. I loved John Updike’s stories about the Maples in my
twenties, for example, and hate them in my thirties, and I’m not even exactly
sure why.
But the session was a gift,
and I found myself unexpectedly enjoying the initial questionnaire about my
reading habits that the bibliotherapist, Ella Berthoud, sent me. Nobody had
ever asked me these questions before, even though reading fiction is and always
has been essential to my life. I love to gorge on books over long breaks—I’ll
pack more books than clothes, I told Berthoud. I confided my dirty little
secret, which is that I don’t like buying or owning books, and always prefer to
get them from the library (which, as I am a writer, does not bring me very good
book-sales karma). In response to the question “What is preoccupying you at the
moment?,” I was surprised by what I wanted to confess: I am worried about having
no spiritual resources to shore myself up against the inevitable future grief
of losing somebody I love, I wrote. I’m not religious, and I don’t particularly
want to be, but I’d like to read more about other people’s reflections on
coming to some sort of early, weird form of faith in a “higher being” as an
emotional survival tactic. Simply answering the questions made me feel better,
lighter.
We had some satisfying
back-and-forths over e-mail, with Berthoud digging deeper, asking about my
family’s history and my fear of grief, and when she sent the final reading
prescription it was filled with gems, none of which I’d previously read. Among
the recommendations was “The Guide,” by R. K. Narayan. Berthoud wrote that it
was “a lovely story about a man who starts his working life as a tourist guide
at a train station in Malgudi, India, but then goes through many other
occupations before finding his unexpected destiny as a spiritual guide.” She
had picked it because she hoped it might leave me feeling “strangely
enlightened.” Another was “The Gospel According to Jesus Christ,” by José
Saramago: “Saramago doesn’t reveal his own spiritual stance here but portrays a
vivid and compelling version of the story we know so well.” “Henderson the Rain
King,” by Saul Bellow, and “Siddhartha,” by Hermann Hesse, were among other
prescribed works of fiction, and she included some nonfiction, too, such as
“The Case for God,” by Karen Armstrong, and “Sum,” by the neuroscientist David
Eagleman, a “short and wonderful book about possible afterlives.”
I worked my way through the
books on the list over the next couple of years, at my own pace—interspersed
with my own “discoveries”—and while I am fortunate enough to have my ability to
withstand terrible grief untested, thus far, some of the insights I gleaned
from these books helped me through something entirely different, when, over
several months, I endured acute physical pain. The insights themselves are
still nebulous, as learning gained through reading fiction often is—but therein
lies its power. In a secular age, I suspect that reading fiction is one of the
few remaining paths to transcendence, that elusive state in which the distance
between the self and the universe shrinks. Reading fiction makes me lose all
sense of self, but at the same time makes me feel most uniquely myself. As
Woolf, the most fervent of readers, wrote, a book “splits us into two parts as
we read,” for “the state of reading consists in the complete elimination of the
ego,” while promising “perpetual union” with another mind.
Bibliotherapy is a very
broad term for the ancient practice of encouraging reading for therapeutic
effect. The first use of the term is usually dated to a jaunty 1916 article in The
Atlantic Monthly, “A Literary Clinic.” In it, the author describes
stumbling upon a “bibliopathic institute” run by an acquaintance, Bagster, in
the basement of his church, from where he dispenses reading recommendations
with healing value. “Bibliotherapy is…a new science,” Bagster explains. “A book
may be a stimulant or a sedative or an irritant or a soporific. The point is
that it must do something to you, and you ought to know what it is. A book may
be of the nature of a soothing syrup or it may be of the nature of a mustard
plaster.” To a middle-aged client with “opinions partially ossified,” Bagster
gives the following prescription: “You must read more novels. Not pleasant
stories that make you forget yourself. They must be searching, drastic,
stinging, relentless novels.” (George Bernard Shaw is at the top of the list.)
Bagster is finally called away to deal with a patient who has “taken an
overdose of war literature,” leaving the author to think about the books that
“put new life into us and then set the life pulse strong but slow.”
Today, bibliotherapy takes
many different forms, from literature courses run for prison inmates to reading
circles for elderly people suffering from dementia. Sometimes it can simply
mean one-on-one or group sessions for “lapsed” readers who want to find their
way back to an enjoyment of books. Berthoud and her longtime friend and fellow
bibliotherapist Susan Elderkin mostly practice “affective” bibliotherapy,
advocating the restorative power of reading fiction. The two met at Cambridge
University as undergraduates, over 20 years ago, and bonded immediately over
the shared contents of their bookshelves, in particular Italo Calvino’s novel
“If on a winter’s night a traveler,” which is itself about the nature of
reading. As their friendship developed, they began prescribing novels to cure
each other’s ailments, such as a broken heart or career uncertainty. “When Suse
was having a crisis about her profession—she wanted to be a writer, but was
wondering if she could cope with the inevitable rejection—I gave her Don
Marquis’s ‘Archy and Mehitabel’ poems,” Berthoud tells me. “If Archy the
cockroach could be so dedicated to his art as to jump on the typewriter keys in
order to write his free-verse poems every night in the New York offices of the Evening
Sun, then surely she should be prepared to suffer for her art, too.” Years
later, Elderkin gave Berthoud,who wanted to figure out how to balance being a
painter and a mother, Patrick Gale’s novel “Notes from an Exhibition,” about a
successful but troubled female artist.
They kept recommending novels
to each other, and to friends and family, for many years, and, in 2007, when
philosopher and fellow Cambridge classmate Alain de Botton was thinking about
starting the School of Life, they pitched to him the idea of running a
bibliotherapy clinic. “As far as we knew, nobody was doing it in that form at
the time,” Berthoud said. “Bibliotherapy, if it existed at all, tended to be
based within a more medical context, with an emphasis on self-help books. But
we were dedicated to fiction as the ultimate cure because it gives readers a
transformational experience.”
Berthoud and Elderkin trace
the method of bibliotherapy all the way back to the Ancient Greeks, “who
inscribed above the entrance to a library in Thebes that this was a ‘healing
place for the soul.’ ” The practice came into its own at the end of the
nineteenth century, when Sigmund Freud began using literature during
psychoanalysis sessions. After the First World War, traumatized soldiers
returning home from the front were often prescribed a course of reading.
“Librarians in the States were given training on how to give books to WWI vets,
and there’s a nice story about Jane Austen’s novels being used for
bibliotherapeutic purposes at the same time in the U.K.,” Elderkin says. Later
in the century, bibliotherapy was used in varying ways in hospitals and
libraries, and has more recently been taken up by psychologists, social and
aged-care workers, and doctors as a viable mode of therapy.
There is now a network of
bibliotherapists selected and trained by Berthoud and Elderkin, and affiliated
with the School of Life, working around the world, from New York to Melbourne.
The most common ailments people tend to bring to them are the life-juncture
transitions, Berthoud says: being stuck in a rut in your career, feeling
depressed in your relationship, or suffering bereavement. The bibliotherapists
see a lot of retirees, too, who know that they have twenty years of reading
ahead of them but perhaps have only previously read crime thrillers, and want
to find something new to sustain them. Many seek help adjusting to becoming a
parent. “I had a client in New York, a man who was having his first child, and
was worried about being responsible for another tiny being,” Berthoud says. “I
recommended ‘Room Temperature,’ by Nicholson Baker, which is about a man
feeding his baby a bottle and having these meditative thoughts about being a
father. And of course ‘To Kill a Mockingbird,’ because Atticus Finch is the
ideal father in literature.”
Berthoud and Elderkin are
also the authors of “The Novel Cure: An A-Z of Literary Remedies,” which is
written in the style of a medical dictionary and matches ailments (“failure,
feeling like a”) with suggested reading cures (“The History of Mr. Polly,” by
H. G. Wells). First released in the U.K. in 2013, it is now being published in
eighteen countries, and, in an interesting twist, the contract allows for a
local editor and reading specialist to adapt up to twenty-five per cent of the
ailments and reading recommendations to fit each particular country’s
readership and include more native writers. The new, adapted ailments are
culturally revealing. In the Dutch edition, one of the adapted ailments is
“having too high an opinion of your own child”; in the Indian edition, “public
urination” and “cricket, obsession with” are included; the Italians introduced
“impotence,” “fear of motorways,” and “desire to embalm”; and the Germans added
“hating the world” and “hating parties.” Berthoud and Elderkin are now working
on a children’s-literature version, “A Spoonful of Stories,” due out in 2016.
For all avid readers who
have been self-medicating with great books their entire lives, it comes as no
surprise that reading books can be good for your mental health and your
relationships with others, but exactly why and how is now becoming clearer,
thanks to new research on reading’s effects on the brain. Since the discovery,
in the mid-nineties, of “mirror neurons”—neurons that fire in our brains both
when we perform an action ourselves and when we see an action performed by
someone else—the neuroscience of empathy has become clearer. A 2011 study
published in the Annual Review of Psychology, based on analysis of fMRI
brain scans of participants, showed that, when people read about an experience,
they display stimulation within the same neurological regions as when they go
through that experience themselves. We draw on the same brain networks when
we’re reading stories and when we’re trying to guess at another person’s
feelings.
Other studies published in
2006 and 2009 showed something similar—that people who read a lot of fiction
tend to be better at empathizing with others (even after the researchers had
accounted for the potential bias that people with greater empathetic tendencies
may prefer to read novels). And, in 2013, an influential study published in Science
found that reading literary fiction (rather than popular fiction or literary
nonfiction) improved participants’ results on tests that measured social
perception and empathy, which are crucial to “theory of mind”: the ability to
guess with accuracy what another human being might be thinking or feeling, a
skill humans only start to develop around the age of four.
Keith Oatley, a novelist
and emeritus professor of cognitive psychology at the University of Toronto,
has for many years run a research group interested in the psychology of
fiction. “We have started to show how identification with fictional characters
occurs, how literary art can improve social abilities, how it can move us
emotionally, and can prompt changes of selfhood,” he wrote in his 2011 book,
“Such Stuff as Dreams: The Psychology of Fiction.” “Fiction is a kind of
simulation, one that runs not on computers but on minds: a simulation of selves
in their interactions with others in the social world…based in experience, and
involving being able to think of possible futures.” This idea echoes a
long-held belief among both writers and readers that books are the best kinds
of friends; they give us a chance to rehearse for interactions with others in
the world, without doing any lasting damage. In his 1905 essay “On Reading,”
Marcel Proust puts it nicely: “With books there is no forced sociability. If we
pass the evening with those friends—books—it’s because we really want to. When
we leave them, we do so with regret and, when we have left them, there are none
of those thoughts that spoil friendship: ‘What did they think of us?’—‘Did we
make a mistake and say something tactless?’—‘Did they like us?’—nor is there
the anxiety of being forgotten because of displacement by someone else.”
George Eliot, who is
rumored to have overcome her grief at losing her life partner through a program
of guided reading with a young man who went on to become her husband, believed
that “art is the nearest thing to life; it is a mode of amplifying experience
and extending our contact with our fellow-men beyond the bounds of our personal
lot.” But not everybody agrees with this characterization of fiction reading as
having the ability to make us behave better in real life. In her 2007 book,
“Empathy and the Novel,” Suzanne Keen takes issue with this “empathy-altruism
hypothesis,” and is skeptical about whether empathetic connections made while
reading fiction really translate into altruistic, prosocial behavior in the
world. She also points out how hard it is to really prove such a hypothesis.
“Books can’t make change by themselves—and not everyone feels certain that they
ought to,” Keen writes. “As any bookworm knows, readers can also seem
antisocial and indolent. Novel reading is not a team sport.” Instead, she
urges, we should enjoy what fiction does give us, which is a release from the
moral obligation to feel something for invented characters—as you would for a
real, live human being in pain or suffering—which paradoxically means readers
sometimes “respond with greater empathy to an unreal situation and characters
because of the protective fictionality.” And she wholeheartedly supports the
personal health benefits of an immersive experience like reading, which “allows
a refreshing escape from ordinary, everyday pressures.”
So even if you don’t agree
that reading fiction makes us treat others better, it is a way of treating
ourselves better. Reading has been shown to put our brains into a pleasurable
trance-like state, similar to meditation, and it brings the same health
benefits of deep relaxation and inner calm. Regular readers sleep better, have
lower stress levels, higher self-esteem, and lower rates of depression than non-readers.
“Fiction and poetry are doses, medicines,” the author Jeanette Winterson has
written. “What they heal is the rupture reality makes on the imagination.”
One of Berthoud’s clients
described to me how the group and individual sessions she has had with Berthoud
have helped her cope with the fallout from a series of calamities, including
losing her husband, the end of a five-year engagement, and a heart attack. “I
felt my life was without purpose,” she says. “I felt a failure as a woman.”
Among the books Berthoud initially prescribed was John Irving’s novel “The
Hotel New Hampshire.” “He was a favorite writer of my husband, [whom] I had
felt unable to attempt for sentimental reasons.” She was “astounded and very
moved” to see it on the list, and though she had avoided reading her husband’s
books up until then, she found reading it to be “a very rewarding emotional
experience, both in the literature itself and ridding myself of demons.” She
also greatly appreciated Berthoud guiding her to Tom Robbins’s novel “Jitterbug
Perfume,” which was “a real learning curve for me about prejudice and
experimentation.”
One of the ailments listed
in “The Novel Cure” is “overwhelmed by the number of books in the world,” and
it’s one I suffer from frequently. Elderkin says this is one of the most common
woes of modern readers, and that it remains a major motivation for her and
Berthoud’s work as bibliotherapists. “We feel that though more books are being
published than ever before, people are in fact selecting from a smaller and
smaller pool. Look at the reading lists of most book clubs, and you’ll see all
the same books, the ones that have been shouted about in the press. If you
actually calculate how many books you read in a year—and how many that means
you’re likely to read before you die—you’ll start to realize that you need to
be highly selective in order to make the most of your reading time.” And the
best way to do that? See a bibliotherapist, as soon as you can, and take them
up on their invitation, to borrow some lines from Shakespeare’s “Titus
Andronicus”: “Come, and take choice of all my library/And so beguile thy
sorrow…”
Source | http://www.newyorker.com
No comments:
Post a Comment